1Tackling the Task of a Lifetime Marriage is a lifelong task. The hardest job we will ever undertake. It can be one of the most rewarding efforts we will ever make. Most of us don't know how to love our spouse "until death us do part." We need the correct tools. What's in this tool bag? Forgiveness. Caring for my spouse's heart. Giving grace, allowing my spouse to be themself. Keeping a clear account. What can using these tools do? Make our marriages wonderful. For the rest of our lives.