In this book I share a part of my life's journey illustrating how I learned that the greatest relationship that I can have is a relationship with God and myself. So, I can help other people have a better relationship with God and with themselves. My readers will understand whatever you do in life you must always be prepared to deal with the consequences. In the chapters of my book I describe different types of relationships that can heavily affect the way we live our lives. For interest, Chapter 3 titled "Vampires" which talks about negative people that can drain the life out of you and wear you down. Then there is Chapter 4 titled "The Fantastic Fours" which explains how we can experience life the way Joseph did in Genesis 37:12-41:43, from the pit to the palace. I call the stages of Joseph's life the four P's: From the pit, to Potiphar's House, to prison and then to the palace. In Chapter 5 titled "Obstacles" I share that the biggest obstacles I face is myself. Like blaming the pass for present failures and realizing the difference from laziness and slothfulness is maximum effort. This book is the tell all compilations of experience I encounter after my divorce in 2005 and becoming a part time father of two boys.