After a series of tragic events in Jay's life, she found the courage to trace back to the events that led to such despair. Abuse, lies, addiction, mental illness, and insecurities all played a significant part in her life's journey. After enduring overwhelming trials, she felt hopeless, as if her life was over. Gripped with despair, she decided to give up. Faced with death multiple times, she asked herself a question, "Why didn't I die?" She answered, "I didn't die because my life would give birth to "Her.'" "Her" is a little black girl, brown girl, white girl, yellow, girl. "Her" is a poor girl, rich girl and a multi-talented girl. "Her" is a woman, a Christian, a pastor's wife, a leader's wife, a member of an influential family. "Her" is a preacher, singer, public figure, a fashionista, classy woman, an educated woman, a mother, daughter, and friend. "Her" is You, "Her" is Me. This book was designed to help you unlock, birth, heal, and deliver your own "Her," and it is the author's prayer and belief that it will do just that