But Christians don't have to follow these norms. The Bible gives us a better way.

It's a way of chastity and wisdom. A way that understands that marriage--the end goal of dating--is for life. The person you marry will shape who you become spiritually. And that person will also be the father or mother to the children God is pleased to give you some day.

Pastorally and accessibly, Joshua Engelsma answers the practical questions of Reformed, Christian dating based on the truth that we must date differently--with marriage as the goal and scripture as the guide.