ourself, "If only I could have a do over with what I know now." In the process of living, you have learned many valuable lessons that, had you known earlier, would have had an impact on your decision making. An important area of life that concerns many people is marriage. Failed marriages are very painful because often in retrospect the parties come to realize what could have been if only they had been more thoughtful in choosing. For those who have experienced the anguish of a failed marriage or those who wish to enter into a fulfilling marriage, learning from your own experience or that of others can help you in choosing a spouse. This book presents important questions that should be carefully considered before getting married. The questions are derived from my observations as a pastor counseling many couples both before and after marriage. Candid answers to these questions will give you critical information, which, if taken into consideration prior to the marriage, will lead to better decision making and ultimately fewer divorces.