Dating and falling in love is fun.

Getting serious is...well, serious.

It means real-life situations, like fathers getting sick, people you love getting injured, and...maybe worst of all...work parties with your significant others. Shudder.

But this is what it's like when you're in a relationship. Things aren't always rainbows and unicorns. Even if you're living and laughing with, and having hot sex every night, with three men who worship the ground you walk on. Trust me, that's amazing. Really amazing. I'd-probably-give-up-cookies-for-this amazing. And best of all...my men would never make me give up cookies.

But I'm having to hang on a lot tighter for this ride than I expected. Because I'm not just figuring things out with one guy. I've got three. And if we're seriously going to do this, then we have to figure out if we're really all in for better or worse.